Prince William faces a difficult milestone next year. August 31 will mark the 30th anniversary since the death of his mother Princess Diana, and there is already speculation as to how he will commemorate the occasion.
It has been widely reported that his younger brother Prince Harry has plans to make a documentary film dedicated to the late Princess.Â
While nothing has yet been confirmed, itâs said that Netflix is in the running to make the project, and Harry has reportedly already started to reach out to family members and friends connected to Diana for their contributions.
However, Prince William has taken a wholly different view.
Prince William wonât be âpittedâ against Harry
According to The Times, the future King will not make a film about his mother, and has declined âseveral offers to make or appear in documentary tributesâ. Â
It is understood that William also wants to avoid a situation where he and Harry, who remain estranged, are âpitted against each otherâ during film-making.
Friends of Williamâs told the publication that next yearâs anniversary is âa difficult situation for himâ, and that he remains âreally emotionalâ about his motherâs death.Â
The Prince also regards the documentaries he contributed to for the 20th anniversary of Dianaâs death in 2017 as his âfinal catharsisâ.
How will William mark the anniversary?
It is not known whether William will publicly mark the occasion. But friends believe he is most likely to mark it in private.Â
For the 20th anniversary of Dianaâs death in 2017, William and Harry collaborated on two documentaries about their mother for the BBC and ITV.Â
At a Kensington Palace screening for the ITV documentary Diana, Our Mother: Her Life and Legacy, William explained why he and Harry considered the film to be their final public word on Diana, telling guests, âWe wonât speak as openly about her again.â
During the film, the brothers also described their attempts to deal with their grief.Â
âThereâs not many days that go by that I donât think of her ⊠My mother lives with me every day,â William said.  Harry, meanwhile, recalled how Diana âsmothered us with loveâ and said âthereâs a lot of grief that still needs to be let outâ.
The brothersâ estrangement
The two siblings are now estranged and were last seen together at the funeral of their uncle, Lord Robert Fellowes, in Snettisham, Norfolk, on August 28, 2024. But they sat on opposite sides of the aisle, kept their distance and reportedly did not speak to each other.
They were last seen together publicly at their fatherâs coronation in May 2023. Despite taking part in the same procession, they were seated separately inside Westminster Abbey; the Duke of Sussex sat two rows behind his brother, alongside his cousins Princess Beatrice and Princess Eugenie.
The brothers did not make eye contact or speak during the televised service, and Harry left the UK almost immediately afterwards to return to California for his son Archieâs birthday.
âGranny Dianaâ
William has spoken about how he keeps the memory of his mother alive for his three children, Prince George, Princess Charlotte, and Prince Louis.Â
He has said he often speaks to them about âGranny Dianaâ to keep her memory alive and âremind them that there are two grandmothers ⊠in their lives and so itâs important that they know who she was and that she existedâ.
In March 2021, to mark Motherâs Day, Kensington Palace published cards made by Prince George, Princess Charlotte and Prince Louis for Diana.Â
In her card, Charlotte, then five, wrote: âDear Granny Diana, I am thinking of you on Motherâs Day. I love you very much. Papa is missing you. Lots of love Charlotte xxxxxxxxx.â
George, then seven, wrote: âDear Granny Diana, Happy, happy mothers day. I love you very much and think of you always, Sending lots of love from George xxxxx.â Little Louis, aged three, painted on a heart shape and added animal stickers.
Princess Dianaâs wish for William and Harry
There has been a renewed focus on the relationship between King Charles and Princess Diana following the release of Charles Spencerâs book.
The Earl, 62, made a series of explosive claims â including the allegations that the then-Prince was âgiddyâ following the death of his ex-wife in a car crash in 1997.
But now, as the dust settles on Swan Song, questions have been raised about the accuracy of the book.Â
Buckingham Palace pushed back in an unprecedented statement stating that âfraternal grief can cloud reason, affect judgment and colour memory in ways others do not recogniseâ, and Charles was recently forced to issue an apology to Piers Morgan for a factual error within its pages.
And, according to royal expert Ingrid Seward, who maintained a close professional and personal relationship with the Princess, there was no doubt that Charles loved Diana.Â
Ingrid â who was speaking on the live recording of HELLO!âs A Right Royal Podcast â also said it was important to Diana that their two sons, Prince William and Prince Harry, knew âthat their father loved meâ.Â
She said: âAs I said I was very lucky to see Diana shortly before she died, not that obviously anyone knew that, but she was going out with Dodi. And Iâd been to the Ritz with her so I knew the whole set up and I knew Dodi, and we talked about it.Â
âBut she actually told me that she really loved Charles. He was the one she would always love. He was the one that got away, and she said, âItâs very important to me, Ingrid, that my boys know that their father loved me. Itâs really, really important.âÂ
âAnd she said, âAnd of course, the world wonât know because they wonât see the letters that we wrote to each other.â They are in the Royal Archives, but of course you have to wait 50 years to see them.â
Charles praises Dianaâs âbeautiful long brown legsâ
Ingrid, whose new book Catherine & Diana compares the lives of the two royals, also revealed some of the contents of those letters.
She said: âBut Charles wrote her the most beautiful, beautiful love letters, in which he praised her and talked about her in the most loving way saying, âI think about your beautiful long brown legs.â I mean, thatâs very charming, isnât it? Quite sexy, I suppose.Â
âBut he did love her. He may not have loved her in the very beginning, and he may not have loved her by the end, but he always loved her and he felt so bad that he couldnât make the marriage work. He was plagued by guilt because he knew he was the one that should have made it work.
âBut her intense jealousy and many, many other things⊠they were just not suited at the time.â
The royal biographer added: âBut Diana also said to me she thought if theyâd met when they were older, they probably would have made it work and conquered the world; thatâs what she loved to say.â
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