RHONY: Jessel Taank Urges Husband Pavit to Attend Couples Therapy amid Disagreements Over Having Baby No. 3

In order to get on the same page, Jessel Taank wants to seek professional help with her husband Pavit Randhawa.

On the Nov. 5 episode of The Real Housewives of New York City, Jessel and Pavit couldn’t see eye-to-eye on their ongoing debate of having a third child. While spending date night at an upscale Chinese restaurant, Jessel popped the big question: is Pavit onboard with using one of their frozen embryos to welcome a baby girl?

“I think the decision to have another baby is not just one person,” she began before Pavit quickly interjected, “Well the decision is already made. There’s no baby.”

After whispering, “Oh my god. You stress me out, dude” under her breath, the Bravolebrity, 45, admitted that she felt not using the embryos would be a “big mistake.”

“I think it would be a big mistake because we have the embryo. A lot of people who want to have a girl and do it naturally, they can’t guarantee that,” she explained before pausing when Pavit interrupted to take a photo of their food. “I’m about to lose my s—.”

Jessel continued, “I think we should probably see a professional therapist to help us figure this out. I think that you and I and our communication could use a little work.”

When the couple finished going back and forth about whose communications skills were worse, Jessel told cameras that she thought “a therapist would help him sort of understand his emotions.”

“Communication is key in a marriage, and so as much as it’s opening the gates to the baby conversation, I truly do think it might help Pavit and I communicate a little bit better,” she added.

Back at the dinner table, Pavit asked how much couples counseling would cost. When Jessel said sessions could be from $300 to $500, Pavit said, “No way,” and insisted he could find a cheaper alternative.

“I think that we should give it a shot,” she replied. “You sort of always gravitate towards like, ‘Oh, it’s a bad thing.’ It’s actually not. A lot of people actually do therapy, like, Jenna [Lyons] and Cass [Bird] do therapy for instance.”

Pavit eventually claimed he’d “put it on my list” and Jessel confessed that his approach was “very frustrating.”

“That’s just his way of, kind of brushing everything under the rug. There’s no talking. That is how we deal with conflict in our household and let me tell you, this is not working,” she told cameras.

When Jessel let out a sigh, Pavit insisted he would arrange the first session.

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The Real Housewives of New York City airs Tuesdays at 9 p.m. ET/PT on Bravo.