The Bachelor alum Rachael Kirkconnell is getting cryptic on social media following her break up from Matt James.
Kirkconnell, 28, reposted a handful of cryptic videos about the ending of their respective relationships. In one clip, the caption read, âActual footage of me breaking into my friendâs manâs house after finding out they cheated.â
In the video, a woman went incognito thanks to a police costume, a hat, a pair of sunglasses and a fake mustache while holding up a camera. She stood behind the door, waiting for her palâs significant other to come home and then promptly tackled him to the ground.
Kirkconnell also reposted a fan-compiled clip of Sex and the City scenes, in which Carrie (Sarah Jessica Parker) said that she âmissedâ ex-fiancĂŠ Aidan (John Corbett).
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âI missed you. I lie in bed at night and I think about us and I think about you holding me,â Parkerâs Carrie said in a voiceover before Aidan yelled, âYou broke my heart.â (Carrie notably cheated on Aidan with Mr. Big, played by Chris Noth, who she ended up marrying in the first Sex and the City film ahead of his death in And Just Like That.)
Kirkconnell did not explain why she chose to share those videos nor has she publicly accused James, 33, of infidelity. (They have not publicly revealed the reason for calling it quits.)
The former Bachelor announced their split on Thursday, January 16.
âFather God, give Rachael and I strength to mend our broken hearts,â James captioned an Instagram pic from their time on The Bachelor. âGive us a peace [sic] about this decision to end our relationship that transcends worldly understanding. Shower our friends and family with kindness and love to comfort us. And remind us that our Joy comes from you, Lord .â

Kirkconnell later âlikedâ a fan social media comment that suggested Jamesâ upload blindsided her. A source confirmed to Us Weekly that she was only out of the loop on his posting timeline and not the split itself.
âThe split may seem abrupt, but this has been brewing for a while. It was a long time coming,â the source exclusively claimed to Us. âMatt just couldnât commit to her.â
The insider also alleged that Kirkconnell and James struggled with trust issues.
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âIt was hard for Rachael to trust him,â the source said. âRachael really wanted to get married and settle down and they were not on the same page. She felt like she was waiting around, and he would never give her what she wanted.â
James and Kirkconnell met on season 25 of The Bachelor, which aired in 2020. While they didnât get engaged on the show, they left as a couple but split within weeks. The reality TV alums reconciled in 2021, frequently pushing back on pressure to take the next steps and get engaged.
âI feel like when you feel pressure, itâs when you donât wanna do something,â James exclusively told Us in June 2024. âSo, Iâve never really felt pressure because itâs something that Iâve always wanted to do. Itâs something that weâre gonna do at some point. Thatâs why weâre together and what weâre working toward.â
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