When Brenda Blethyn stood down from her lead role in the popular detective series Vera after 14 years, she assumed that she would never work again. But the BAFTA and Golden Globe-winning actress, who turned 80 last month, couldnât have been more wrong.Â
âI didnât think the phone would ever ring, but itâs been ringing off the hook,â reveals Brenda, who left the long-running ITV series last year and was quickly snapped up for a role alongside Andrea Riseborough and Jason Watkins in the drama film Dragonfly. âI didnât know this was going to happen.â
The actress, who celebrated her milestone birthday with a lemon cake smothered in cream and fresh fruit, still fizzes with energy. âI donât feel 80,â she says. âWhen youâre young and you think of 80, youâre in a bath chair. But thatâs not the case, thank goodness.â
In fact, itâs quite the opposite, with Brenda telling us that her plans for her 80th year include running a half-marathon. âIâll see what the trainer says,â reveals the actress, who has run the London Marathon three times with the help of a fitness coach. âSometimes I didnât feel like doing it, and if I didnât answer the door, heâd shout through the letterbox, âI know youâre in there,'â she says.
One of her training strategies was for her husband, Michael Mayhew, formerly the art director of the National Theatre, to drive her to another part of London and leave her to run home.Â
Veraâs longtime relationship with husband Michael Â
The couple met at the National Theatre in 1975 and married in 2010, after 35 years together; Brenda has said that they tied the knot because she felt they were âgetting on a bitâ.
âWe have nothing in common, except a sense of humour.â
The couple, who found that they disagreed on what temperature to keep their home, now live in separate apartments in the same building in Ramsgate, with their dog, Jack, often moving between the two. The secret to their long-lasting relationship? âNothing in common, except a sense of humour,â she laughs. âNothing at all.â
Brendaâs latest drama role
Now, Brenda is taking on a leading role in Channel 4âs highly anticipated adaptation of Barbara Taylor Bradfordâs best-selling novel A Woman of Substance. Itâs a part that she was âquite surprisedâ to be offered, she admits.
âIf you were casting A Woman of Substance, this fashionista, this richest woman in the world, whoâs the first person who would spring to mind? Brenda Blethyn?â she asks in disbelief.Â
Indeed, she was characteristically self-deprecating when asked how it felt to be called an icon at the showâs London launch last week. âYouâre talking about somebody else,â she laughed.
Despite her long list of acclaimed performances, Brenda admits to having suffered from imposter syndrome for most of her life.Â
âWe had a rather Victorian upbringing. Youâre taught that if you want anything, youâve got to work for it.â
âI havenât got that quite so much anymore,â she said. âWe were very poor growing up, but my mum and dad always used to say: âYouâre as good as anybody else, and if you work hard, you can achieve it.ââ
The show â in which Brenda plays the older version of the heroine, Emma Harte, who starts out as a housemaid before becoming a wealthy businesswoman â harks back to the actressâs own childhood. She grew up in a council house in Ramsgate with her eight siblings, her father, William, a chauffeur, and her mother, Louisa, whose first job was âgathering acorns for a local pig farmerâ before she âworked as a skivvy in this posh houseâ. Â
âI could understand Emmaâs struggle, and how important it was just to get a couple more shillings a week. My mum had three jobs to make ends meet,â Brenda says.
âWe had a rather Victorian upbringing. Youâre taught that if you want anything, youâve got to work for it. Nothingâs going to be handed to you on a plate, especially if youâre working-class.â
Brendaâs illustrious acting career
Brenda came to acting later in life, having first worked as a secretary at British Rail, marrying her co-worker Alan Blethyn at the age of 19 in 1964 (the couple divorced in 1973). At 27, she went to train at the Guildford School of Acting; three years later, she joined the National Theatre.
Following TV and film success in the 1980s, Hollywood came calling, and in 1992, she starred in Robert Redfordâs A River Runs Through It, playing Brad Pittâs mother. But it was her acclaimed performance in Mike Leighâs 1996 film Secrets & Lies that took her career to the next level: Brenda was nominated for best actress at the Academy Awards, alongside fellow nominees including Kristin Scott Thomas and Diane Keaton.Â
âIt was bizarre,â she says of the Oscars. âIâd won at Cannes, Iâd won the Golden Globe; I thought there was no way that Brenda from Ramsgate was going to win an Oscar.
âBut then, when they were up there opening the envelope, the blood drained from my face and I thought, âWhat if it is me?ââ
âAt one party â Madonna was there â I was sitting at a table between Michael Caine and Sean Connery,â she says. âI started laughing, and Michael said, âWhat are you laughing at?â
âI said, âWell, Michael, Iâm Brenda from Ramsgate and Iâm stuck between Michael Caine and Sean Connery!â He replied, âI feel exactly the same; Iâm Michael from New Cross!'â
Looking back
Sharing the advice she would give to her younger self, Brenda says: âSpeak up if you have an opinion about something. I used to be a bit afraid to do that, and I wish I hadnât been. Your opinionâs just as good as somebody elseâs, and you might learn something.â
In 2003, she was made an OBE for services to drama. âI couldnât believe it; I thought it was a tax demand,â she laughs. Surely a damehood is next? âIâll believe that when I see it,â she says.
Booked and busy
As for whatâs next, even if the phone keeps ringing, Brenda might not take the calls. âThereâs no work planned, but Iâve been turning some things down,â she says. âIâm dealing with some personal things at the moment, with family.â Â
One thing she is hoping for, however, is that A Woman of Substance returns for a second season so that she can reprise her role, alongside Jessica Reynolds as the younger Emma Harte. âI want to know what happens next!â
A Woman of Substance begins on Channel 4 on Wednesday at 9pm, when all episodes will also be available to stream.
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