Everything Ariana Grande does is analysed under the microscope. Iâm guilty of doing it (here at work, and in my group chats with pals), and itâs become so intense for the star that she announced she will be taking time off when her tour wraps in a few weeks.
Itâs not lost on me that Iâm writing a piece saying we donât need to analyse her every more, while seemingly doing that, but stick with me.
The latest Ari-event sending fans and social media critics into meltdown is the musicianâs new tattoo, seemingly dedicated to her reported love interest, dancer Ricky Alvarez, who has a matching design.
Ariana Grandeâs new tattoo
Ariana displayed her new inking on stage at her Eternal Sunshine tour. Etched onto her collarbone is a delicate inking of the phrase âI do love youâ. Ricky has a matching one, in a gothic-inspired scrawl in the same place.
Fans praised Ariana for âloving loudlyâ, commenting on how she goes âall inâ when she falls in love. Others noted that Ariana and Ricky dated 10 years ago and have recently reconciled, so itâs not totally random that they got matching tattoos.
What does Arianaâs new tattoo for Ricky Alvarez mean?
As a hopeless romantic (though maybe not as hopeless as Ariana), I like to imagine that âI do love youâ was something Ricky or Ari said to one another during their rekindling, hence why itâs such a pertinent phrase for them.
This is far from the first time the musician has had tattoos dedicated to her lover. Her body is a tapestry of artwork, from her fingertips to her toes, with many covered with new designs when relationships end.
Take her tattoos dedicated to her ex-fiancĂ©, comedian Pete Davidson. She had âalwaysâ in his handwriting on her ribs, his name on her ring finger, plus his dadâs ladder number, in tribute to the firefighter who lost his life during 9/11.
Her myriad of Pete tattoos have all since been covered up with new designs.
She also has a few delicate body art pieces for her ex-husband, Dalton Gomez, including a Roman numeral âXVâ on her right little finger, symbolising their wedding date.
All of this to say, tattoos clearly arenât a big deal for Ariana Grande. Easy come, easy go. When you have as many as she does (just like Ed Sheeran and Harry Styles are constantly adding to their collections), itâs not hugely remarkable â and this isnât exclusive to celebrities.
The more the merrier
A friend of mine is heavily tattooed and got several with his ex-girlfriend â but thinks nothing of them. âWe didnât get matching tattoos, but we did get several at the same time, on several occasions at tattoo conventions and in studios. If Iâm honest, they donât really remind me of her at all, and I had to think about it when you asked.
âI did have her initials tattooed on my leg, but I got that covered up.â
Agreeing with my musings that the more tattoos you have, the less likely they are to have memories attached, He adds: âI guess it would bother me more if I only had three or four tattoos and one of them was her initials or a matching tattoo, but Iâve got so many I donât really think about the ones Iâve got at the same time as her.â
Another friend of mine, Jamie, only has a handful of tattoos (rather than the full-body ink my pal above has), with four of them dedicated to friends â but he never got one with his ex-partner, who he was with for almost five years.
In relation to Arianaâs willingness to get body art for anyone sheâs dating, this is interesting.
âYou know when your friendships are going to last, and you know when a relationship probably wonât,â Jamie, who works as a private phlebotomist and thus has no fear of needles, said of his decision not to dedicate any body art to his ex.
âIf you and a friend drift apart, you still have the nice memories linked to the tattoo, whereas if you break up with a partner, most of the time itâs not good and you donât really want to remember the relationship.â
While Arianaâs dedications to her exes clearly mean something to her, when theyâre among a sea of so many other tattoos, including Harry Potter, Pokemon and Spirited Away-inspired ink, theyâre less meaningful.
Jamieâs most heartfelt tattoo is in memory of his friend Ollie, who took his own life earlier this year. Ollieâs dedication comprises the Dermot Kennedy lyrics âOften, Latelyâ tattooed in Ollieâs handwriting on Jamieâs leg.
Because all of Jamieâs tattoos mean something special to him, from âloyaltyâ tattooed on his foot, matching a friend from school to the Dermot lyrics, he felt even less inclined to get something with his ex-partner, but he agrees, âIf I was covered in tattoos, one with my ex wouldnât have been such a big deal. Itâd be easy to forget about one if you had hundreds!â
In summary, with her countless tattoos, Arianaâs latest addition isnât worth over-analysing, in my opinion. Sheâs lamented feeling like a âspecimen in a petri dishâ since she was a teenager, so letâs leave her be, as sheâs asked.
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